I just wanted to chime in and tell you that I agree with you and think you are doing an awesome job ...
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I'm not perfect and I certainly wasn't before, but I'm pretty good. The anger, resentment and frustration is 99% not here. I have days when it is but I don't show it to H.
It helps so much when you can get to a place the you love yourself (as Pudmuddle posted) and can put aside the resentment and frustration. Like you, when I'm feeling blue and discouraged, I try to remind myself that H didn't choose to be where he is and it's not me, but him. It helps so much to know deep down inside that we are really awesome people who have been thrown a curve ball. But the thing about awesome people is we usually figure out how to handle it.
You have such a great attitude and have found a place where you can deal. Hang on to that PMA!
I'll keep up on your sitch. Best wishes.
2t2m
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013
