my wife left, but still lives with me

[tough spot]

I think she isn't moving until Feb. 1st. Not sure, haven't spoken yet.....

So we have a month of planning i think. Who gets what, where the children are and when. How do i handle all that? Holy F*#$. I keep telling myself 'this is what she needs.....she feels this is the only way......if I love her then i need to let her do this....', it helps to take some of the focus off my feelings of self pity. Darn women anyway!