It's just a moment; This time will pass

[Whiterose]

Thank you job, I guess I'm not ready to fully admit that I'm done, so I'm not done.

We did. S19 kindly shared his cold so I'm sick now too. Lol.

I guess S14 hasn't talked to h since his call Christmas Day. I did tell him H called and then this morning the phone rang, I didn't get to it in time, and H left a message (hasn't left a message on the home phone since he left so it was odd) saying that I had said I would get S14 to call him back but he hasn't. I did tell S14 it was his dad leaving a message and he said "ok". Just asked S19 if he's talked to his dad since Christmas Eve and it was also a no.

Do I call h back to tell him I have told the boys, I feel like he's blaming me for maybe not telling them, or do I leave it?

My friend, T, the one that sometime h talks to and she lives in a different province, came with her H and kids for dinners. Tradition for us to get together. It's her brother, G, that was friends with H when they were 18 and who's wife,TR, just did her own bd a couple of months ago, anyway they continue to live in the same house and are in the process of selling it but were supposed to have H over for Boxing Day. I guess G got in trouble from TR for telling T that H was going to their house. "You weren't supposed to tell her!" Honestly people!?!?! T was upset by that. I said it's probably normal that my H doesn't want me to know. T got a text from TR saying H never showed but T doesn't know if she just said that to make up for G saying something. Anyway, H and TR have a history before me (TR was dating G left G to date H broke up and went back to G) and I said I bet they get back together. It seems they did a lot of texting when TR was deciding to leave G. I said I bet hey end up getting together. T did ask TR if she had any intention of dating H but TR said no that he's H and that he's like her brother. I told T I would wait and see. TR comes from an equally dis functional family as H and has always been a little crazy.

Anyway, you can see where my mind is today. ......