A twist on cake-eating & dropping a bomb of my own

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A pretty good week in all I suppose. H has continued to text first thing in the morning and calls me at the office a few hours later. So he is continuing with the communication. I am trying so hard not to initiate too much ... trying to remain the distancer and let him pursue. It's tough sometimes. The lines of communication are open, but I don't always know how far to distance??

One interesting thing that came up was he went back before Christmas to facilitate a big move of the operation that was supposed to take place on the 26th. The move is again delayed (first time was late November). His texts were as follows:

H: This really [censored]. Could have been there after all. You cannot imagine how angry I was.

H: It's ok from business perspective. But personal, no.

H: And that's what bugged me. If I try even once to balance personal and business ... then something suffers. God I really try but this one hit me like a baseball bat to the head.

Me: I know you try. Sorry.

I didn't know what else to say and I really don't know how to interpret all that. I am not sure what he means. Maybe I need to start following my C's advice and ask him to explain!