Isn't it funny what thoughts come through your mind at times. I was just sitting here reading someone's topic when I thought: my position in this sitch is like the WAS. While I haven't done anything to resemble the WAS, it is just the way that everything is still the same for the W not me. Someone was talking on their topic about the kids visiting their Dad for an hour on Christmas, and that is what happened to me. The W is the WAS but also having the cake with everything. She gets the family, their attention, their time, she gets treated like nothing is wrong and I am treated like the one who is going through MLC or something.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.