Stop going to the website. It's not helping you at all. If and when the affair dies, you'll know because your h will be walking around like a sad puppy and may even begin to have more contact w/you Until then...stay off the site.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
