AJ..he is Catholic and I'm jewish but we decided long ago the kids would be Jewish and thusfar they have been going to hebrew school and my one son is close to his bar mitzvah. My h never stepped foot in a church in his life. I find it so hypocritical that he ruins our family and lives then finds god. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh but it goes along with all the other things I no longer recognize about him. I'm all for religion but to change the holiday as it is for my kids, to not have me with them for the holiday and then make them sit in church when its not their religion really annoyed me.
On a less pessimistic not, I went ahead and bit the bullet and filed for Divorce yesterday. I didn't tell H he will figure it out soon enough. I didn't want to start another year sitting around in limboland as I had been for the past two years. He clearly chose a new life that didn't include me so why should I stay in this situation any longer?
Bklynmom...unfortunately I sat home this year alone and wallowed in my own depression. But, I've decided to change things and start the new year fresh with a more positive attitude. I didn't realize how hard the holiday season without my kids would be.
me-42 H-41 S-12 S-8 M-15 yr f/o bout OW- 11-29-12 H moved out 10-31-13 Filed for divorce 12-27-13 D- 10-21-14
