Thank you.

A lot to think about. We didn't discuss what would happen at a month. I don't have an end of the plan. I guess that's what I'm trying to figure out.

I have seen some positive steps. He is continuing therapy. I went with him to therapy. He invited me to his apartment for the first time (he always said it was weird before). We have met for lunch a few times.

It all sounds small but they are positive changes and more than I've seen for 9 months.

Hearing that he wanted to stay married was a step back in my work on me. I have been more focused in him since he said that and not so much my own growth. I need to get back on track for sure. I was doing really well.