Holy F-in S#!t Positive spin! I just read the first 15 pages your stitch and I cant believe what you went through and how you held it together this whole time. I will be praying for you, your D and your W. Also thank you for your posts and words of wisdom/encouragement. I am feeling much better today and I can honestly say I am still hopeful. Yes this F-in [censored] but I can get through this.

Originally Posted By: Positivespin
Take the first step right now.....Stop kissing her ass trying to make her like you. You will get guilt trips and nasty looks - dont take the bait. She is walking away. CARE FOR YOURSELF!
Little did I know I have already begun working on myself, but I was feeling bad about it. Thanks to you guys, I know its OKAY! And Your right, she has given me nasty looks and sny remarks. I'm kinda getting some humor out of it. I just have to be careful I dont come across as a D!#k, as I have the tendency to do that.

Fartiltre, Thank you for post, Im going to try as hard as I can to focus ME.

dxw689- that post is fantastic, Thank You sooo much for sharing it with me.

Thank You everyone for all the help, I honestly could not have done any of this without you.


Me: 39 W: 33
M: 9 years
T: 10 years
S7 S10
BD 10/19/13
W Filed 11/25/13
EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA)
WAW moved out 3/15/14