Feel like falling down

[willbwell]

boys are skiing with h. d15 and I are having girl time! We've done this the last several years.
When h came back home in July, we talked about d15 and I joining them this year.
in the end, h said I could take the boys skiing if I wanted. I said it was a nice tradition for he and boys to keep.
I know I don't need h's permission and could have booked our own plane/hotel. Kids would have liked it. would have just made h mad.
h was here xmas morning to open gifts. as soon as we were done, he left. made me wonder if ow came in town. Perhaps her children are with their respective dads.

H cautioned me about sending wrong message to d15.
I wanted to ask him if he has considered message he is sending to kids??
Kids obviously get it that h doesn't want to be here...

he'll do his dinners out or movies, but there is 0 hang out time.
I am ready for a new thread...