Best to take each day as it is, sometimes that is all I can focus on.
We can't predict what will happen in the next hour, much less the next day, week month etc. All we can do is choose how we will act regardless.
WBW said it...we decide who we want to be and it is very empowering when we realize the decisions lay in our hands. You can't dictate H's actions but you get to decide your reactions and subsequent actions. Very powerful indeed!!