I found Wonka's explanation on another poster's thread:
"From my own experience and in reading the threads here in the MLC forum, it seems to be that there are two distinct types of MLCers which fall on the two ends of the spectrum: kitty kitten vs. Jekyll/Hyde. To me, Jekyll/Hyde types are full of rage against many things and act out whatever "unresolved" issues in in their younger years in a way that sometimes scares the crap out of the LBS; whereas the kitty kitten MLCer seem to have a milder form of MLC in which the LBS can throw out "truth darts" without any blow backs or really out there gaslighting from the Jekyll/Hyde MLCer. This is not to say that these kitty kitten MLCers do NOT have any "unresolved" issues...they certainly did and needed the time & space to figure themselves out (i.e. rH's H come to mind as an example)."
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
