Raine, What your h is experiencing is very typical of a mlcer that is reconciling. He is still growing and trying to feel comfortable in his own skin. It takes about 18 months for them to totally settle down and until he feels comfortable again, you may see displays of anger and self doubt. You've been handling the situation quite well, especially the drive thru scenario.
I know it's difficult not knowing who your h will be on any given day, but your patience will pay off in the end. I do hope that he'll continue to open up and share as he continues to grow up.
I do hope that you are taking care of yourself and that you and your family continue to enjoy the holiday season.
Keep up the good work!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
