I wish I had a better update. He is still with the other woman. This situation makes no sense. He is adamant (with words) that he loves me and wants to work on this marriage. He talks about a future for us. All of this is new in the last couple of months. There has been no mention of love or future since BD in March.
But he hasn't dumped OW. It's all starting to seem like a bad joke and I feel like I got roped back in only to be hurt again.
I don't know if I should proceed with the divorce (not what I want), go no contact or what.