I can totally relate to how hard it is this time of year. Especially when the kids are gone.

For me the first two years I did something fun for myself, one year I went skiing. Take care of yourself as well as you can afford to. Get a manicure, go to yoga, get out of the house. Make the life you dreamed of having.

I would also imagine that I was I was Jackie O or Angelina Jolie or some other movie star and imagine how they would act if their husband left them. How they would never let the world see how they were devastated.

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13