Wife Said She's Done

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........and you might not stop the divorce.

There is NOTHING you can say or do that will change her mind - SHE IS DONE RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!

She has made up her mind and everytime you do something right it will piss her off. You are the most annoying person in the world right now.

Here is how DB works. Yo take this time to work on you. Become the best person you can possibly be. Invest in you. Do something different, exercise, take a class, plan a trip somewhere by yourself (My goal this year is France) Learn about you because in the last few years you lost you....Thats why she is leaving.

When you find you again she MIGHT be in a position to take another look at you. Maybe not......but you will be in a position to choose.

Look back in my thread....go to #1- I begged, I cried, I was utterly broken. Today, If she said she wanted to try again their would be a list of conditions and I would have to start dating this very different person again.

Like I said recently...I dont like who she is.

TRUST ME if you take the right steps you will be much better off a year from now then you were a year ago.

Take the first step right now.....Stop kissing her ass trying to make her like you. You will get guilt trips and nasty looks - dont take the bait. She is walking away. CARE FOR YOURSELF!