3, I am glad you had a nice holiday! I think it was OK for you to drop your boundaries . . . you have to do what works, right? I don't think that ML was opposite of DBing. DBing is doing what works and not doing what doesn't work. And I think that if there ever is to be an R, that connection needs to be maintained.

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I was ok with what happened because I am at a point that I don't have any expectations that things will change.


This is exactly where you want to be, isn't it? I mean, it's exactly where I think I want to be. If you are able to do what makes you feel good, and be able to have fun with your H and reconnect with him, without feeling like crap the next day (unlike someone I know who shall remain nameless - but her name starts with M), I think that's great.

Keep this feeling going, you are doing awesome!! smile


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me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14