When? That's a great question Tired. But it will happen.
Like I said, you and I are similar in how we do and view things. We are slow to make large decisions, but final when we do.
For people like us, it takes time to process and make the decisions.
I'm at a place now, where I can look at your situation and say you should make the decision sooner. Essentially, to let him go and to choose you. I can look back and see that I should have made that same decision much sooner in my process.
I also decided I was not going to have enough information to understand any of what happened or why and that it wasn't necessary for me to be able to move on.
It was a series of difficult decisions. Looking back, they weren't that difficult - just needed to be made.
I admire that personality in others as well as myself, Tired. But there are times when it doesn't serve you as well as other times.
Raised Jewish and yet attending church services? Confused about something? I was raised in a family where my father was Jewish, my mother was Presbyterian and neither attended services. We did always have a nice Hanukkah bush around for Christmas though
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
