So sorry to hear about your friend, I do hope he gets the help he needs to feel better. So sad. It's hard to believe we can't see those things sometimes.
Sorry about the family tension, but I completely understand in your sitch why you would not want H to come back right now. He has a lot of cleaning up to do, if that happens. Family members can only go off of what they observe, they are not actually in the situation so they have no idea of the real dynamics. Try not to let it get you down Ttd. They mean well and I'm sure she thought she was helping in her own way.
I'm glad you got a great night's sleep, that does wonders for the PMA!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
