I don't think it was against db'ing, 3. I think it was right for your situation. There was a need for reconnection and it happened, plus you had no expectations!!<--that speaks volumes for where you are today and how much you have grown.
I'm sure the wine helped, too. I am sincerely glad that it created a happy memory for you during what could have been a very stressful day.
You are doing well 3!!!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.