My W is only gone 3 weeks as of today. She moved to parents and only has to take care of herself and her horses. she can pick and choose when and if she takes a kid for the night. she usually does take our one D13, but leaves the other two out of it.
I set the boundary that she not leave her laundry here within the first few days after she left. Se left stuff and I put it in a bag and gave it to her unwashed and smiled to say, you left your shirt(s) behind when you got changed here the other day. She doesn't leave stuff anymore. In fact, she responded by no longer coming into the house for any reason. hmmm. its only 3 weeks. I guess there's lots more coming.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
