Your H is truly behaving like a child. Did he really thinking moving his pillow and blankie to the couch would hurt you? I think your H passes through many child ages quite quickly. It must be hard to be so angry inside all the time.
My guess is he was stewing over the comments said to him and he again thought it was because of you. Sheesh. That man needs a kick in the @ss! Let me do it! Please, please, please?! LOL
Like job said, let him stew in his fermented juices for awhile. A long while. I'm sorry he hurts you so much. You don't deserve that at all.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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