24 days (since you signed in) is not a lot of time to even change your underwear
Give her all the space and time she needs. If she brings up wanting to move out, you can say that while it is not what you want, you would not stand in her way.
2.5 months without sex. If you're standing for your marriage then it's gonna be a longer ride than that.
She (guaranteed) is still insecure about her looks and weight and any attention from anyone else is wonderful but scary.
Three relationship talks since BD is three too many.
AA is a great place for support.
By the way, asking her to move out? Do you want to save your marriage or not? She doesn't really care about how you feel and from her perspective, she said she was done and you cemented her thinking with the I may ask you to move out.
Of course it's tough on you, but you get an opportunity to really look at yourself and change the things you don't like.
FOTW had a lot of excellent points. I suggest you listen.
