Jfun,

The good- I am glad you had a great day with the boys. You were being the rock they needed and you did what needed to be done.

The bad- You were way to hung up on your wife yesterday. I know that Christmas is an emotionally charged family time....very emotional. The truth is though....you were counting how often she went to the bathroom. I can almost guarantee you were hanging on her every word also. As for the FB pictures and cousin's comment....you definitely need to put that in the "as-if" box.

Your wife is trying to escape from her reality...let her do it. Rebuild and improve yours.....that is our focus.

Sorry about the 2x4...

Be warned also....another R convo should be coming your way.


"Be the changes you want to see in the world"