My 180 is still proving to be tough because I'm still in our home with my wife and children. Which don't get me wrong, I am completely gratefull for, but is very trying to say the least. Interactions with her are pretty limited and very impersonal, and it seems as though she is completely disconnected. As my focus through the holidays has been my children, and as I'm cooking, cleaning, and looking after my children. She is having lunch with friends, glued to her phone, and kinda in another world. I told her Christmas Day that I would not be moving out, because I chose not to...her response was pretty limited, and she agreed that she couldn't still say that she didn't have hope for our R. But REALLY, actions Speak louder than words....