amb, not that it makes it any better but my h would do the same. wants me to 'get ready' to be on my own.
I agree with job. its ironic, they don't want to stay and do the hard work, they want to take an easier way out. I tell h, constantly amazed that in order for h to get what he wants- D, the burden of the work seems to fall on me.

I've read tons. I think you are a reader too. When in doubt, I do research. I asked h if he read any on the fallout of D...

You have a lot ahead of you, but I think you sound like a smart with-it woman. This year is almost over...New Year, New beginings

M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13