Wow: This really hit a cord, uRworthy: "But he needs to know that you heard that he doesnt want to be married. If he feels you havent, it will cause him to want to show you he means it." - because when he first told me, I told him I thought he was just really mad at me.

and Wow willBwell - also a 20th anniversary? I hope your holiday was peaceful for you. Thanks BklnMom - I need those resources - will check out immediately.

It really helps to have your support and see you all answering me - in the face of this other rejection, it can feel so lonely- I think I have kept my chin up pretty well over this holiday, but it can feel like you are acting like a saint for no reward with the WAS. Hugs and peace to all of you.


M 20 yrs
me 47
H 51
s11
d8

BD 10/8/13
H Moved out 11/30/13
OW slept over with children Dec '13
OW moved in w/H Jan '14