I totally agree with you Delboy that it relates to something traumatic in childhood. For me what is so confusing is that my H always claimed to have the perfect childhood. Even though I believed that, there was something else going on below the surface in his family that he has yet to admit to even to himself.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13