Gifts are all right but must be given without any expectations.

As for those feelings, well, I can only say from experience that those feelings slowly fades. I guess it has a lot to do with 'acceptance' of my own situation. With that comes detachment. Slowly but surely.

M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet