My BIL called H once my parents had left and asked him to come and see the kids. They'd been sad all day. They'd had fun but were sad on and off. Lots of hugs, kisses and special chats. H said he was busy eating his dinner but would call me......he never did. Thankfully I managed to stop BIL telling me kids that daddy was coming, so they know no different.
I get some satisfaction that now my family have seen first hand the change in my H. Previously they just couldn't see it, except physically. Now they can see he's not here mentally. My old H would never have missed Christmas with his kids for a slice of turkey with his friends. Friends he's knows a few months, over his kids and the family he's had for 10 years.....
M32 H37 DD1 6 DD2 5 M6 T10 EA 31.08.13 Separated and H moved out 19.09.13 ILYBINILWY 23.09.13 OW 11.13
