I'm not sure what to say friend, its the holidays. Your married (kinda) your wife is gone, its your first xmas without.
As far as the phone, why does having a broken phone require a new acct?, well it doesn't. You just get another phone? or am I missing something? Doesn't sound like she's being straight with you. If she wants to separate the phones why not just tell you that's what she wants?
I also think I've said this before, I don't think this has much to do with you. She's obviously got some issue that she never truly dealt with herself, unfort. your on the receiving end of it.
Maybe it is time to just let go of it all, as hard as that is. Maybe you not being there to "take care of things" will eventually make her realize you weren't the bad guy.
