Labug Thank u for the holiday wish and giving us a different perspective to focus on.
Originally Posted By: paul19510
I actually hugged my WAS when I saw her and exchanged the kids today. She seemed ok with it. its not a crime right?
No I don't think it's a crime at alland don't start the mindreading. All is good no harm done.
After WAS and I got done opening presents we were saying merry Christmas to the kids and giving them hugs. WAS didn't look or say anything to me or even look at me so I said sincerly MERRY CHRISTMAS and she replied back and came toward me smiling with arms out for a hug. I gave her a one armed hug which she did the same. Afterward I wish I would have given her a full hug. All this to say. What happened, happened and all is good.
Time to move on a quit midreading about things we think we're doing right or wrong. If WAS's truly want to b with us they will make an effort too if not we have to try n accept the things we cannot change. So let's not beat ourselfs up
Let's live for today and enjoy our Christmas (at least try to enjoy this day). I know it may b hard to see but there are many things to b greatful for.
Merry Christmas all. Were all here all thinking/feeling the same. Stay strong
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14