Hi Portia the card is very thoughtful and I think interesting that he wrote that. Like he is reassuring you..
I understand what to mean about feelings kind of not being there.. I think part of it is self preservation --- you have worked so hard on yourself and getting to the other side and you don't want to go back to where you were. He would need to catch up with you.
I wish you all the best. Have a great holiday
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home