CC, I hear you.
The children are our gifts.
truly, our h's don't realize this is such precious and special time.
I am so grateful for my kids.
We had a first last night in as far as celebrating xmas eve. It was a lovely and special evening for us.
Really its too bad h misses out and doesn't feel the warmth and genuine joy of family.

the ow woman thoughts creep in my head too on occasion. but, she will never be me. really, she can't hold a candle to me.

she can't hold a candle to you!


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13