I hope you and the kids have a wonderful day regardless of whether H is around or not.
I understand what you mean about 'nothing has changed' you do everything anyways and that you want someone to participate. This is a long process and that may happen with H in the future. Right now, as you know, they are in another world.
You are a strong and inspirational woman. I believe you and believe me...the OW...not worth a mention.
(((( )))))
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
