Saw the ex pretty much the whole day today. She was cheery which was a nice change. I told her today will be a good day. She was actually really nice to me today and I swear she have me those looks that our loved ones used to give. We had dinner and wine and had fun with our son. She was pretty much happy the whole day up until 10min before she fell asleep. I'm taking the positives today and forgetting about why she got all grumpy at the end. I know she wasn't grumpy with me but she was taking it out on me, not cool, but whatever.
She invited me over to her family dinner tomorrow but we'll see if I go. I might just stay home by myself. Ill decide tomorrow.
Anyway, im just gonna keep on keeping on and finish my glass of wine, plus I have a beer that needs finishing too!!
Merry Xmas everyone!!!
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14
Saw the ex pretty much the whole day today. She was cheery which was a nice change. I told her today will be a good day. She was actually really nice to me today and I swear she have me those looks that our loved ones used to give. We had dinner and wine and had fun with our son. She was pretty much happy the whole day up until 10min before she fell asleep. I'm taking the positives today and forgetting about why she got all grumpy at the end. I know she wasn't grumpy with me but she was taking it out on me, not cool, but whatever.
She invited me over to her family dinner tomorrow but we'll see if I go. I might just stay home by myself. Ill decide tomorrow.
Anyway, im just gonna keep on keeping on and finish my glass of wine, plus I have a beer that needs finishing too!!
Merry Xmas everyone!!!
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14
Gotta love pulling out of a backslide in such fast fashion.
We all went to my cousin's for a Xmas dinner. Everything went smoothly. Not quite sure why she still accepted the invite to go, but it was nice regardless. Afterwards she just vented about her troubles she's having with friends and other matters that are stressing her out. I just sat and listened attentively. It was nice hearing her say things on her own. She's nowhere near an awakening but she's headed in the right direction.
Sometimes I wish I could just smack some sense into her(regarding her relationship with her so called best friend), but I gotta let her figure this out on her own. It's funny because the way she is feeling about her best friend is how many of us lbs's feel. Maybe she will see the resemblance.
Anyway, tomorrow is a new day and it will be stressful for me because I gotta watch Kyle Orton lead my boys to a playoff spot.
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14
Oh man my team is in more trouble than yours, but I cant lie, its been a pretty good run this last 35 years. Go Steelers!
Actually today will be the first time in 17 years I've missed a game (directv season ticket, and been to a few games when they make it to the west coast).
I also admit this is something I need to do. I need to change my life around, get out of the same routine a bit. Changes are a happening, right?
You sound like you have a much better grasp on the situation 2th. Hang in there buddy, listen, validate, and when it hurts the most, trust the process.
Oh man my team is in more trouble than yours, but I cant lie, its been a pretty good run this last 35 years. Go Steelers!
Actually today will be the first time in 17 years I've missed a game (directv season ticket, and been to a few games when they make it to the west coast).
I also admit this is something I need to do. I need to change my life around, get out of the same routine a bit. Changes are a happening, right?
You sound like you have a much better grasp on the situation 2th. Hang in there buddy, listen, validate, and when it hurts the most, trust the process.
Steelers eh? My ex is a steelers fan. I've watched my share of steelers games and ya, your team was hurting this year.
Changes are good, but some routines for me offer comfort. Sunday morning breakfast with the guys is a tradition I won't change any time soon. My ex still comes to these breakfasts. It's weird but normal at the same time.
I have a decent grasp because I've spent years working through this. It still hurts but I know no one knows the future. I find comfort knowing that things always work out, or at least bounce back. The universe needs to be in equilibrium. Lows become highs and vice versa unfortunately.
Go cowboys!!
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14
