Heather is right, it is ok if it is repeated. And I do not get tired at all. I had to have it repeated to me many times until I got it.
I so understand what you mean about feeling like a ghost in your house and wanting to rattle some chains.
I realized the only person responsible for allowing me to feel that way, was me.
So, I began to walk around like I didnt have a thing to be upset about. It took some time, some work, but I learned to change my mindset. It was my home, too, and I had a right to feel comfortable in it.
If he didnt like it, he could leave. But, I wasnt going to walk on eggshells, nor was I going to allow myself to get caught up in the merry go round.
This is hard, T. It just is. But you have control in it all. YOu just have to take it.
Who cares if he knows you are there or not? You are not a ghhost. Dont act like one. Go about your life. Leave him to his. I want you to start to think about not doing stuff for him.
I know that concerns you. But, it shouldnt. He wants out, not your problem.
So, I agree with Heather. Take it one day at a time. One hour at a time if you have to.
Tomorrow do not engage in any kind of negative behaviour. Do not allow anything he says to cause you to react.
Just live your life, T. Walk around with confidence, like you know something and he doesnt.
