Thanks. I'm trying but it's hard. Books haven't arrived yet. I'm staying with NC, looks like she is too at the moment.
A friend of hers asked if I was working on myself and figuring out my issues.
WHOA!!
I hope you see the HUGE signficance of THIS^^^^ comment. It's "intel" you need. It's more than a 'hint"! A friend of HERS is asking YOU if YOU are working on YOURSELF...so
stop focussing on whether your w is coming back to you and
start becoming the man she'd want to return to.
Frankly I don't care about the affair if it's not a dealbreaker for you.
In fact, I'd stop thinking about it altogether and just BE the better choice.
Read the books and read THIS thread and look in the mirror for things to work on so you take the focus OFF your wife, whom you have no control over anyhow
and only, exclusively work on YOU.
Become a man only a fool would leave. Dig deep and look within.
You just may have a chance at turning this around.
and have a peaceful holiday, no matter what happens. THings WILL get better down the road. I promise.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
