Put the gift under the Christmas tree, along with all the other gifts. So she wasn't aware. The gift is from Santa, but she will know. I expect or hope a reply will come once she has time away from family.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.