wow, I agree with you. I am only 3 weeks into my separation this week. I will wait for the dust to settle from the holidays and see what comes in January. If there are any moves to reconcile or even talk. We have nothing at this point. If no progress by 6 weeks I may find myself doing exactly what you are doing. By the way, did you say she only left 6 weeks ago and there's already OM? or was that an issue before as well?


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14