Slow,

One of the reasons that I have followed your story is because I feel we are similar in some of the R background. Another is because you are so damn articulate in writing. "It's tough to know what's backsliding vs what is just rebuilding"...EXACTLY! I have these long winded posts and the way you word things is always so perfect and spot on.

I think it is important to note that if this comes off in writing to a stranger, it has to come off in person to your H. Obviously you are the reason you have been able to rebuild from a not so good place...and you are going to be human and backslide. Just wanted to remind you that you are doing so great and he is lucky to have you smile I am sure he knows it too.

Thanks for the reminder that it's ok to retweak!

MERRY CHRISTMAS...your family is in my prayers on this special night!

Merry Christmas!


Me:35
BF:36
Together 4.5 years lived together 2 years moved out 8-13
still "together" but not together.
Confused.
D11, D13 (from 1st marriage)