One of the reasons that I have followed your story is because I feel we are similar in some of the R background. Another is because you are so damn articulate in writing. "It's tough to know what's backsliding vs what is just rebuilding"...EXACTLY! I have these long winded posts and the way you word things is always so perfect and spot on.
I think it is important to note that if this comes off in writing to a stranger, it has to come off in person to your H. Obviously you are the reason you have been able to rebuild from a not so good place...and you are going to be human and backslide. Just wanted to remind you that you are doing so great and he is lucky to have you I am sure he knows it too.
Thanks for the reminder that it's ok to retweak!
MERRY CHRISTMAS...your family is in my prayers on this special night!
Merry Christmas!
Me:35 BF:36 Together 4.5 years lived together 2 years moved out 8-13 still "together" but not together. Confused. D11, D13 (from 1st marriage)