H in MLC, trying to DB

[BrightFuture]

Tbh, my H said something similar, that he had about 10-15 years to live and he didn’t want to argue in a relationship. It is not that we argued all the time, there were just a couple of things we got into argument about, like him texting his female friends, for example. Now, he is looking for a “harmonious relationship” and a perfect partner for the remaining 10-15 years of his life. And parting, of course.

I can say that I lost myself in a marriage too. I cannot say that I was comfortable going places by myself, but I was pretty independent. I became clingy and dependent on H emotionally. I’ve been working on this since BD and I’m making progress.

I hope your D feels better and have a wonderful day.