I just found out that she is out for blood now (at least though her attorney and legal/money issue) She was really sweet at first and told me she would not be a beotch about this divorce and take me for all im worth. Well, that train of thought has defiantly changed. She is basically asking for majority custody and everything but the kitchen sink financially. Her attorney is giving her tons of suggesting and she is accepting every one of them.
We dont have alot of assets, Our house is not worth that much, Our cars are worth about the same, I make 90cents an hour more than her. The cost of both our attorneys will probably be more than what the end result will be.
Why is she doing this to me and the kids. How the heck am I suppose to DB, How am I suppose to be Happy around her. Why do I still want our marriage to work, even though I know she is DONE.
We never talked any of this over, as to who gets what. Who feels entitled to what. Who gets the kids when, nothing. There has been ZERO conversations about any of this. The only conversation we had was that she wanted a D and then I received the papers. Now everything is going through the attorneys and we act like everything is fine and dandy around the house.
I personally have not brought up the subject as I thought this was DBing. But I feel I need to say something now. Can anyone help me out here.
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14