I don't know if anyone else does this, but I am peptalking myself in my head for these next couple of days:

PMA
No expectations
Act 'as if'
Enjoy each moment with friends/family
Make memories
Forgive often and let go of resentments
Focus on me
Do not control the situation
Read Sandi's rules before we leave
Smile often
Breathe...etc

Lather, rinse, repeat. I want to enjoy these next couple of days. I want to have self control and be proud of my decisions and behavior.


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014