I don't know if anyone else does this, but I am peptalking myself in my head for these next couple of days:
PMA No expectations Act 'as if' Enjoy each moment with friends/family Make memories Forgive often and let go of resentments Focus on me Do not control the situation Read Sandi's rules before we leave Smile often Breathe...etc
Lather, rinse, repeat. I want to enjoy these next couple of days. I want to have self control and be proud of my decisions and behavior.
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014