Well, anyone that would remember my posts would remember that my H was a horrible MLC person. He basically had a gf for over a year then spent the next two years running around and when I asked him where he was every night he was so vague and would answer my questions with why do you care or why do you want to know. Finally, in Oct he left. I wanted to work it out for so long but I really felt that I couldn't do it anymore. He had no job for over a year, got a job, then lost it two months later. Why?? This was never like him to just lose employment so frequently. Is this MLC???
So, where am I now. He is living in a not so nice area with no job and no money. He has taken money from me and continues to blame me and says he is so much happier now. When he says this it stings so much. He rarely sees the kids. And, from time to time contacts me and asks me if I miss him and tells me he loves me but it doesn't sound even like he means it.
Will it ever get better? Will I ever feel better and happy? I have to move bc I can't afford the house he dumped on me. He hasn't given me a dime. My family contstantly harrass me about getting a D from him but it is so hard even if he is a jerk. Anyone else in a similar situation? Any advice to get through this.
me-42 H-41 S-12 S-8 M-15 yr f/o bout OW- 11-29-12 H moved out 10-31-13 Filed for divorce 12-27-13 D- 10-21-14
