One more example came to mind from your post Bugsy. I remember something that used to really piss my exw off. Whenever she was sick I offered the world to fix her. I would have tried an invent a new medication so that she could feel better and not be sick. I cared so much about her that I just didn't want her being sick. The reality is that she wanted to feel sick, and deal with it her own way and not be bothered by me. In looking back, it was pretty insensitive from my part even tho that wasn't my intention.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”