Good stuff Bugsy. I'm going through similar things. Last night my GF annoyed me when I picked her up from work. She is very stressed about buying gifts and all that goes with the season. So when we got home I said to her I'd rather have peace over presents. I sat and told myself I would not allow anything ruin my mood. So I'm learning to say what I think instead of recenting it later and getting pissed. Baby steps and Merry Christmas


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden