Pud, I so see my H in this dinner story. He did something like that last year while he as in the house for a few days (painting doors, shish.) It was not dinners though, but he gladly ate the leftovers I had in refrigerator.
What I can see here is that he is definitely looking for some comfort and validation from you. This is a good sign. I hope you have a great Christmas!
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state