loveHub, is it possible that we may still heal? it feels so strange. she's turning into someone I don't know. it feels darker each day....everybody wants me to let go and stop hurting. I am GAL'ing. new classes at the Y, several hockey games each week with 2 kids.

She took paperwork from the house with her. did your experience work like that. almost assuming your not coming back/???

me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14