Hello CP, I've caught up on your story over the last week. You sitch is very similar to mine, but my H is still very angry and resentful, still telling me he doesn't love me.

I'm glad that you are moving forward to piecing your M. I think it's good to have some reservations, it will keep you both honest and aware.

I will be curious to watch as you guys move forward. I think all of the counseling efforts are a great sign that you guys are both willing to look at the issues and work through them. Quite an effort on the part of a WAS-I think that's a good sign.


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014